Life isn't shitty all the time, just most of the time.

So I've realized that people don't tend to actually care or know much. Like in general, not about you, not about work, not about school it's just a feeling we have. Take this for example; "What do you wanna do today?" "Uh, i dunno i don't care." or "So do you have anything to say to that?" "I don't know." We use idc, idk all the time in texts, face book, msn, wherever.

It's kinda ridiculous because you would think people would know and care about what they want, don't want, need, don't need, feel, don't feel, but we don't. It doesn't help that people don't even have face to face interaction it's all done over text messages or face book. It's sad really seeing emotional and meaningful conversation just get flushed down the toilet while we all get sucked into every aspect of technology. Now not for a second am i gonna bash technology without stating how i use the term "face book me" or "inbox me" even "text me", it has come into our language so casually. I'm just saying how people can't actually express themselves anymore we have to hide behind cell phones, computers & laptops. The worst of it all is face book, like seriously I've seen face book ruin so many relationships because of all the drama that gets caused by others or just by your "change of relationship status". I changed mine this week due to some inconvenience in my relationship and now i have people texting me, face booking me, just simply generally talking to me more and they all start off by saying "I see you changed your relationship status." How bad is it that someone can't go single for more then 5 mins without being bothered. It's not like i was even classified as "In a relationship" I had put down "It's complicated" but yet within 5 mins i got messages asking am i alright, what happened, blah blah blah. What bothers me the most about technology and how anti social people get with each other even though it's beyond ironic that what we use is called social networking and social plans for cell phones, is that you can't read someones emotions or tons or facial expression over text, you have to be with the person to see it and it causes so much shit to the point where you could take the simplest sentence so wrong and it could start a huge fight.

The best way of describing today's way and how we use technology for everything was said in the movie "He's just not that into you" where one of the female characters is sick of dating with today's technology she says " I had a guy leave me a voice mail at work, so i called him at home, and then he emailed me to my blackberry, and so i texted to his cell, and now you just have to go around checking all these different portals just to get rejected by seven different technologies. It's exhausting." Everyday someone is getting rejected by technology, it's no longer happening in person. Where has our personal contact gone? Oh i know, the only personal contact people get is after they go through all the bull over face book or over cell phone is a booty call. Pretty much to sum it all up, stop being so anti social everyone, take time to talk to people, get to know them. It will pay off in the long run, i promise.

JayEhm.

Cupcake Making

Picture taken by DDS Photography



Steph with a cupcake



Me with a cupcake




Cupcakes

Dinosaurs!

Cupcakes

Getting the icing ready

Yes we made them from a box, icing was from scratch though.

Stephy being silly with the beaters =]

Wait, Stop, Refresh.

Hello everyone, I have now officially restarted my blog. Why? Some may ask, well I got lazy and didn't ever write. So here I am, restarting, I even deleted all my other posts from before to refresh my blog. Later I will be posting the cupcake adventure i had with ddscutecakes (check her out) but for now I will just ramble on about anything. I am currently focusing on attending university for fall 2011. I plan on taking communications so i can work in Public Relations. We will see how this goes. Unfortunatly Im at Adult High School due to some misfortune I had as well as needing more university level courses to attend my program. But this will be bye for now. Promise to write soon.

JayEhm.